Thursday, October 27, 2005

Engagement Party Part I

The engagement party in Kuching was really fun... It was filled with so much laughter and i'm so glad that danny could fit in so easily with my friends. Truly it was THE most wonderful party i've ever attended and i'm glad it was my own. I would wanna thank everyone who made it there. Thanks for your support. I know it took something for some of you guys to get to the venue and i know you've treasured our friendship enough to make it there. I love you all for that.

And for those of you who didn't make it, here are some pictures that my bubbly freind Felicia May Dizer has taken for us to remember the special moment. Enjoy!~

Ban Seng... Bbq Steamboat here is the best! You get to enjoy the food while getting some facial treatments done heheh

On the other table are some of my best buddies enjoying their food also ;-)


Grace and Beau Ah Fai... The other happy couple :-)

Thanks y'all for making this engagement party a memorable one. Thank you so much for the gifts as well!

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Thinking back

While that's what people like me do when their lives have suddenly gone static, redundant and monotonous. Did some thinking over the last few days regarding my relationship with Danny. Have to say it has change a lot. Grew to love each other, hate each other at times, learn to kiss and make up, repeat the mistakes then kiss and make up again...phew! We've come a long way...

Just day before yesterday we had an arguement over something i now consider petty. Dunno why i picked on him over such a thing when i clearly know he's like that and that i did not have a problem with it last time, when we first started our relationship. Then i thought. I must have taken him for granted. Expected him to solve the clues i dropped him knowing that he could not for the simple reason: He's a GUY; not a GIRL! i think this is the biggest problems in most relationships. Girls expect guys to know everything and guys do not know everything even though they sometimes pretend they do out of ego.

I love Danny with all my heart. There have been times and there will be times again when i will think we are not meant for each other and that our relationship will never work out. But somehow, God gives me the strength to carry on and reminds me that every one is perfect and that we always have to give some sometimes. I know my dreams for the perfect guy can never come true. Well, it isn't shocking cause my dream guy has blue eyes and blonde hair and is totally romantic! But then again i wouldn't want someone like that if he doesn't love me the way i'm experiencing love from Danny now. His love for me has no boundaries...just like God. He may have flaws that i find it very hard to tahan sometimes. But i have mine too. And to think and he can accept me just the way i am makes me want to accept him just the way he is.

I know God put us together for a reason. So that we can teach each other and help each other grow. I also know that as long as we have God as the focus of our relationship we are alright :-)

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Hey~

Have just finished my mid term exams and still have another french test, 2 presentations and 4 assignments to pass up before my hubby comes to Kuching to celebrate our engagement with my Kuching friends. Am so looking forward to seeing him. We've been apart for so long and i'm missing him so badly.

Was just doing my project the other day with my group mates and i realized how mature i grew compared to the first year i came to uni. I'm still anxious about things but not very anymore. Learnt to relax a bit and sometimes just sit back and let things take its course. Also have gotten lazier but still manage to keep the grades up (a lot of it is because of God's grace) so i'm happy. Made a new friend with my junior a couple of weeks ago and i'm still getting to know her. Hopefully will get to tell her the good news soon. Time's running out for me but i hope i go slow with her. Don't wanna rush her or scare her into things. she will be coming over to bunk with me tomorrow. Chris won't be in cause her bf will be here and my junior has problems with her room mate so i thought why not.

Ah... a few more weeks and then there's finals. So fast it's scaring me. I can't believe it's been two and a half years alrady. Everything is just going too fast. I really enjoyed myself here and am still enjoying myself. The friends i made here are really true friends. Can't say that i ngam with everyone la but yea, i really did make a whole lot of new friends here and something tells me i'm gonna be telling my grandchildrem all about them.

Half and hour to class. and i'm sitting doen of this computer blogging on one site and looking for pictures of The Corpse Bride on another site. I'm a Tim Burton fan. Movies are dark sometimes but they usually have happy endings. Can't wait to catch the movie when it comes out on the big screen!

Wednesday, October 05, 2005

It's slowing down


Well it's like every other in thing. It starts big and then it slows down. The blogging frenzy has spread like a virus infecting even ppl whom you don't think would do this sort of thing. But the virus has now, a cure to combat it. At least for my blog it has.

I think the visiting of blogs have lessened. More bloggers are now either just blogging for the sake of blogging and not really blog visiting anymore. There's also news every now and then saying that some blooggers have been arrested for blogging racial stuff on their sites bringing them to court and getting themselves arrested. Gues this has to be a big thing that something like that to happen.

As for me, i'm blogging for the sake of blogging hehe. Do go site visiting sometimes just to see what's going on with other people and to see if my fiance has a new fetish (not like it makes any difference... we talk every night!!!). Or maybe sometimes, when i have nothing to do, like now, (waiting for Chris to download her info from the net) i might just sit down and pen a few words. Cheers!!!

P/S: Can't wait for my baby to come over...Miss him like crazy!